How To Save A Life
Written by Major Tom
Filed under: Music
May 22, 2007
I rarely blog about music nowadays even though I am a very avid music lover. But one day about a month ago, I was browsing BillBoard’s Top 100 to find new music that I may add up to my listening menu. I had been revolving mostly around regular faves like U2’s unforgettable Rattle and Hum double album, Bob Dylan’s old masterpieces, Bruce Springsteen “best of” album (listening to The River over and over again), and about a couple of nights ago, I thought of putting on Billy Holiday on the DVD player slash VCD player slash CD player slash karaoke system ( most entertainment electronic device nowadays are such) after renoticing an old CD of hers I kept from view inside a dusty rectangular box where I usually store cassetes and cd’s not within my regular listening list.
And high on the list of the charts is a band named The Fray which I thought has a very cool and nifty name for a musical group and wondered why nobody thought of that before. I immediately listened to the sample audio clip of it’s hit “How To Live A Life” and was easily endeared by it although not in a big way, like I did for example upon hearing for the first time U2’s “Where The Streets Have No Name” or Gun’s N Roses’ “Welcome To The Jungle” —songs that had somehow became landmarks of my early adulthood.
But….but I have downloaded a full copy of The Fray’s “How To Live A Life”, including some of the band’s other songs and played them over and over again on lazy afternoons and that beginning part of that song (How To Save A Life) that goes “Step one you say we need to talk…” keeps ringing over and over again in my head, even until the moment of sleep, that I find myself humming its melodies often. It must be that I liked the song so thoroughly that’s why I kept thinking about it and I suddenly realize that It has been for a long time now that I had last became so excited about a song or a band. The last time perhaps was when I first got to hear about Red Hot Chili Pepper’s “Scar Tissue” and that was really a very long, long time ago—like 5 years ago.
“How To Save A Life” is such a good modern rock song—so good in fact that I kept humming it while I am driving along spalted downtown streets. This is one exciting band that knows its music and knows what radio-friendly means while being lyrically relevant. Rarely you see this in a band nowadays. They can be huge like Gin Blossoms when they were at the top of their years. Mystical like Stone Roses with very original melodies. Or possibly become legendary like REM for their meaningful messages.
The song ask a question and we wonder what answer does it demand. How does one really save a life? Within its lyrics is deep emotions. The songs laments on how to “…lose a friend last night” and then on “…how to save a life”; it’s a song about longing and lost, that despite it’s ear-candy melodies, it is a lonely song that spoke of lament and endearment—of discovery and then of separation. It’s one of the featured song in the hit medical drama “Grey’s Anatomy” that it is so apt to a show that presents characters in scenes where lives are either lost or saved, destroyed or rebuilt, found or lost.
Listen to “How To SAve A Life” here.
See full lyrics here.

there are new songs of red hot chili peppers that are nice.
havent heard of the fray. i’ll ask kay one time.
Comment by bingskee — May 22, 2007 @ 9:29 pm
To Bingskee: Yeah, a friend told me that their latest outtings are just terrific. But somehow I felt that after their momentous achievement in their album Sex, Sugar, Bood, Magic I felt like they wont be able to outdo themselves ever again that any other music they produce would always fall short.
Comment by Major Tom — May 22, 2007 @ 11:31 pm
Naku, pareho tayong nagmu-music tripping ngayon. Around the house, lately, I have been sporting this head set connected to my cellphone where I installed my fave songs in its MP. Before, I would get so mad at my kids for not hearing me when I was saying something to them because their ears were constantly plugged on their music too. Pero ngayon, baliktad na! Hahaha! Siguro, nahihirapan na rin sila ngayong magpalaki ng nanay!
I enjoyed listening to “How to save a life” Thanks, Major Tom!
Comment by rhodora — May 23, 2007 @ 12:54 pm
To Rhodora: Music really makes the world go round and we are lucky to have them, coloring our lives.
I’d say just like in the song “People”, where it says “people who needs people, are the luckiest people…”; perhaps we can say also that people who loves music are one of the luckiest people in the world.
Comment by Major Tom — May 23, 2007 @ 8:24 pm
I must confess that I haven’t been seriously checking out some new music, or recordings for that matter.
How pathetic of me
Comment by eric — May 24, 2007 @ 7:13 pm
my boys said it is for the addicts. My young daughter, a medical student love this song very much.
Comment by myepinoy — May 25, 2007 @ 9:14 pm
To eric: Some new music right now is really good like Arctic Monkeys and Arcade Fire. You should try it. I think Pearl Jam has a new work out there.
To myepinoy: Oh thanks for this info cause I’ve been wondering really what the song exactly meant.
Comment by Major Tom — May 26, 2007 @ 10:01 am